Family Caregiver Blog

At Guardian Angel Hospice, we understand the pressures you are under as a family caregiver. This blog is designed to support you in the incredibly important work that you do.

As the North Central Indiana experts in family caregiving, we have resources, tips and information that can make your life much easier.

If you would like help, give us a call at: 800.338.4043.


When grandpa has dementia: Teens and tweens

When grandpa has dementia: Teens and tweensFor a teen, a relative's dementia can turn a close relationship into one that's now awkward, confusing, and embarrassing. And creates feelings of guilt. Teens and tweens benefit from learning the basics of grandma or grandpa's condition, such as "There are diseases of the brain that change memory and thinking. We should expect that [grandparent]...

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The doctor interview

The doctor interviewAfter you have scoured the Internet to help your relative find a potential new doctor—someone on their plan and with no obvious red flags—it's time to get more specific. The doctor's website may provide some descriptive information, but most likely, you'll want a conversation. Start by calling the doctor's office to ask business and insurance...

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Caught in a cycle of negativity?

Caught in a cycle of negativity?For most family caregivers, frustration and guilt are common, as is anxiety and resentment. These feelings are normal and reasonable under the circumstances. It’s not realistic to eliminate negative emotions. Caring for an ailing family member IS emotionally taxing, especially in the case of memory loss. But sometimes the negativity can feed on itself. You can...

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Senior centers: Worth a fresh look

Senior centers: Worth a fresh lookEven pre-COVID, many 90-year-olds adamantly refused to go to a senior center, saying they didn't want to be around "all those old people." (!) Does this sound like your loved one? Admittedly, the senior centers of the past tended to focus on bingo and crafts. These activities are of limited interest to the newest generation...

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Combatting dehydration

Combatting dehydrationWith summer's warm weather, be on the lookout for dehydration in your loved one. The signs include confusion, fatigue, weakness, and sleepiness. Some people become dizzy and their balance is thrown off. Dry mouth, headaches, and muscle cramps are other symptoms of dehydration. It is estimated that 20%–40% of seniors are dehydrated. Getting them to...

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Dementia and finances

Dementia and financesIf the person you care for has dementia—memory or thinking problems from a condition such as Alzheimer's, a stroke, or Parkinson's—unpaid bills or a messy checkbook may have been your first sign that something was amiss. Certainly, in the later stages of dementia, your loved one won't be able to manage their finances. But what...

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The “Sandwich Generation”

The "Sandwich Generation"Elderly parents are living longer. Children are often dependent for more years than expected. Add to this the ongoing responsibilities to spouse/partner and jobs, and there is little wiggle room for the millions of family caregivers who find themselves squeezed in the middle as the "Sandwich Generation." When you are pressed on both sides like...

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Swollen legs and feet

Swollen legs and feetMany older adults experience swollen legs and feet. For some, it's because of sitting a lot and leading a sedentary lifestyle. For others, it's the water retention side effect of a medication. And for others, the swelling—called "edema"—is a symptom of a chronic or even serious illness such as heart failure or liver or kidney...

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Does brain training work?

Does brain training work?The brain is another organ to keep fit, and regular workouts are a good thing! Our brains enable many types of thinking: Problem solving, planning, attention, and memory. They manage our emotions and help us understand the emotions of others. Our brains also control movement (balance, speed, and coordination). And it's where we process our...

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Understanding the rhythm of a disease

Understanding the rhythm of a diseaseMuch of the strain of caring for a loved one lies in the loss of a predictable routine, a sense of "normalcy." Understanding the course of your loved one's condition—the rhythm of how it unfolds—can empower you to respond more flexibly to its challenges. Do any of these patterns ring true for your situation? Relapsing...

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